Welcome to my blogspot!

So welcome to my blogspot. It has been created by one of my awesome friends who also felt that I could spread some cheer, gossip, advice, ask for advice, and well just about anything a Suburban Housewife or Nosey Nancy could want to read. Let me tell you a little about me NOW and then I will tell you some things that got me to where I am.

I am a 30 something, oh hell lets face it, I am almost 38 years old. UGH, that even looks as bad as it sounds. I feel 27. I have 3 wonderfully crazy daughters. And unfortunately we are living with my mother for now. You see, May of 2009 my husband, whom I had been with for 13 years decided he didn't want to be married anymore. So he just up and moved out, taking my heart with him. Lucky for us, he still continued to take care of us financially for the next 12 months. A lot happened over that year. After he moved out, my hormones went crazy. The lack of sex we had during the past 9 years had just all built up. At first I was extremely and completely heartbroken. So I took my frustrations out by just going crazy, literally. So I ended up with a 5 day stint in the hospital. And it was there I mean one of my current best friends. And we have been great friends since, and I will talk more about her later.

So over that year I lost my husband who I thought was my best friend, I lost my best friend of over 20 years over another man (he wasn't really worth it, but turns out neither was she), I made new friends in my neighborhood who I absolutely fell in love with. Summer was great! My kids and I hung out at the pool almost every day. And if we weren't at the pool we were making the most of our superslide, or we were down in Fredericksburg at the Lake of the Woods enjoying the private beach and making more friends. Which is where I met man #1. I am single afterall, right? After the week or so of "funtime" with the man who assisted in breaking me and my best friend up I started dating/seeing another man that I met over a dating website. This time I thought it would be smart for me to date an older man, just a couple years older. However that didn't last. Turns out he was nothing that I wanted in a man. I wasn't physically attracted to him but I did enjoy his company. Maybe it was just that I was so alone I wanted to be with someone. But I did learn that perhaps I might like to try younger men. So I joined a few dating sites. Did you know that men are completely stupid and never read womens profiles but just look at the pictures? (and I do take great pictures, most of the time) Now, about 12 months after joining them, I have yet to meet or even email with a decent man. They are ALL complete morons! So I have closed all of the accounts. What a bunch of wasted money. So now I am flying by the seat of my pants, or lack there of.

So many of my newly or not so newly friends have hooked up with old friends they haven't seen or talked to in years, all because of Facebook. So I figured that I will "network" and see how that works. So far, its been interesting to say the least.

Well, I must log out for now. I hope to add more and more blogs daily and hope that some of the people I write about don't ever read this.

TTFN