Times are Changing

So much has happened since my last blog that I don't even know where to begin.

Well, lets start with work. Work has been amazing. We finally managed to get rid of the 2 bad seeds on the FD team. One went gracefully, the other, well not so much. I have been promoted again. This time I was promoted to Assistant Clinic Administrator. It comes with alot of responsibility and a totally crappy salary, but a good bonus structure. I have been working an average of 40-45 a week anyways. One of my closest comrades quit to go work for another Massage Envy. Another one put in her too weeks. I love them both and I will miss them both so much! Myself and another management leader have devised a master plan to make our clinic number one in the country. And I really think we can do it. I had my oldest at work with me on Saturday. Well, she now wants to work at Massage Envy. I told her I didn't think she would be able to sell. And she says, mom- I'm your kid, of course I'll be able to sell. And if it doesn't come naturally you can teach me.

At the home front, well that gets complicated. First my mother tells me she is cutting my rent in 1/2 so I can save to move out. Then within days of that she tells me that my brother is moving out. So I don't know if I am to pay the 1/2 or the whole thing now. I think now that he is moving out it will make a big difference (not that he personally had anything to do with it) since that gives the girls a real bedroom and I have to finish converting the garage into a real room. I have to put up drywall over the unfinished front area. I have to take down the garage door track since there is no longer a garage door. But I have to wait until we get a shed to put all the stuff that is in the garage into. I just hate not being able to have friends over. I don't always feel like going out but I have to if I want to hang with my friends. I miss my sister so much! I haven't been able to talk to her in so long. It really sucks that I lost 2 of the people I loved the most in about 18 months.

My ex finally got a place of his own. Well as much of on his own as could be considering he got an apartment with his girlfriend, whom I despise. He plans on taking ALL 3 of the girls twice a month instead of just taking the 2 younger ones once a month. And they are super happy about that. I am still super crushed. And he doesn't understand my anger. Come on, he tells me that was tired of being married yet moves right from me to someone else in less than 60 days of moving out. Ummm, if you don't want to be married, why are you living with another woman? It makes it seems like he didn't like being a father. I know that he loves his daughters dearly but the only thing that is different. He is living with a woman just with no kids. And I hope she knows that they will never have kids together. I'm sure he has forgotten but in 2008 he had to sign a form in order for me to have my hysterectomy, that he didn't want anymore children. I may have to remind him before shamoo starts reproducing.

Oh and a good one, Bro Code overrules FWB code. yeah, I learned the hard way. (no pun intended) That's all I'll say about that. I hope that I can get my room done in a timely manner. I am so stoked to have a room of my own! One that is not used as a living room, play room, office, and my bedroom. Oh and did I mention it has its own entrance?

About my mother, urgh she is killing me. But not like you think. She is so miserable and lonely. I want her to meet a man. I think she would be so much happier. I recently heard of this thing called Professionals in the City. Well they have speed dating and I want my mom to go. (well truth is I want to go too but we are in different age brackets) I think she would enjoy it. I may just look into it and buy her a tickets!

My youngest baby has been going to therapy every week. She is getting better at reading. She just hates doing homework so much. It is such a hassle to get her to brush her hair and teeth! Drives me b-a-n-a-n-a-s!!
My oldest, well all I can say is at least she isn't getting into trouble like in Cville. She is still skipping some classes and not being smart about it. If your gonna skip a class, 1- you don't hide out in stairways! 2- you make sure you get all your classwork done.

Crap, I just saw the time. And I gotta get going. When I started typing I didn't know what I was going to type. But then once I started all kinds of things came to me.

Ya'll take care. I will write again as soon as I can. Don't forget to email me if there is anything I have written about previously and you would like a follow up!